What should a counselor do to discourage inappropriate behavior in a group setting?

Inappropriate behavior in a group setting often requires a precise response to maintain a positive and constructive environment. Choosing to avoid responding or closing the eyes does not address the behavior or help the student understand that what they are doing is inappropriate. Instead, it's essential for a counselor to engage with the student and the behavior head-on.

When a counselor actively acknowledges inappropriate behavior—through direct response, maintaining eye contact, or using active listening—it reinforces the importance of appropriate conduct. Ignoring the behavior might inadvertently signal that the behavior is acceptable, which could encourage it to continue.

A more constructive approach involves using warmth and direct communication to discourage the behavior, fostering a space where students feel safe and supported while also being held accountable. Acknowledging conflicts and inappropriate actions in a supportive manner aids in developing students’ social skills and encourages better choices in the future.